少用狠字
爸爸总是喜欢用一些特别特别狠的字。
以前，我在北京参加高考的时候，他冲我嚷：“考不上清华大学打死你。”
我来马来西亚读书，每学期选课的时候都必须跟他汇报。他有的时候非要我退掉一门课选另一门课。假如我不同意，他也会在电话里喊，“你不听话就退学，以后一分钱也不给你。”
有的时候我也在想自己是不是太依赖父母了，已经27岁了，还在靠父母和姐夫的钱读书。但，父亲越是恶狠狠的说话，我好像就越难以独立。每次想做出一个自己喜欢的选择，就要面临或者“被打死”，或者“被退学”，或者被毁掉前途的结果。
其实，父亲这么做很傻，每次他冲我嚷这些狠字，我们的关系都会进一步的被冲淡。
我总想问他：
“难道我存在的全部价值就是名牌大学么？”
“考不上名牌大学，我就要被打死么？”
“难道我的前途对于父亲没有任何的价值么？仅仅是不听话就可以把我的前途全部毁掉么？”
而且当他在我终于千辛万苦考上重点大学之后赌输了大量钱，害到我无法毕业，我真的不知道怎么去面对他，怎么去跟他讲话。假使当年，父亲能原谅我可能考不上清华大学，是否后来的我也会更容易原谅他的过失呢？
在马来西亚留学的日子里，每次爸爸没有按时缴学费，我也无法想通，这就是不考上名牌大学就要打死我的爸爸么？
经常去看别人的blog，我发现有不少朋友喜欢写一些非常狠的字，比如“bitch”、“fuck”在自己的blog里面，我觉得这是一件很不好的事情。
开始她/他可能会觉得很有趣，很有性格。可是一旦养成了习惯，有一天会不会她/他在吵架的时候，开始用这些字来伤害自己的爱人或者亲人呢？
2009-08-04
Last Sunday, I joined Cari Photography Contest in Lake Garden.
The organizer said he noticed that as a photographer, I always tried to take photos for not so good looking girls, who abandoned by other photographers and try to make everyone happy. Not like other photographers only surrounding and focusing on beautiful girls.
The organizer said he noticed that as a photographer, I always tried to take photos for not so good looking girls, who abandoned by other photographers and try to make everyone happy. Not like other photographers only surrounding and focusing on beautiful girls.
2009-06-11
Start to get high assignment marks Again!
Start to get high assignment marks Again!
I was used to getting very high assignment marks in my EX-College. After shifting to Sunway, everything changed.
Many reasons, the most important I think I started my first year there, so I knew what the lecturers in my EX-College wanted. Second reason, because of the shifting, many my courses changed their sequences. Like I started to learn Corporate Law at semester 6, so when doing Corporate Governance assignment in semester 4, I didn’t really understand the topic as I should I have. Third reason, I was over proud of my assignments marks before, I didn’t pay enough efforts after shifting environment.
You know, when I got my first very low assignment marks in macro economics in VU, I was stunned. Even after this low assignment marks, I still thought it was just once. I would soon be able to score again. However, it was just the beginning. I got a series of low assignment marks afterwards.
Gradually, assignments and theory questions in final exams became my headache.
This nightmare finally finished at my last semester. All assignment marks are in the first group this time.
Good and bad, no more assignments in future, sigh~~~
I was used to getting very high assignment marks in my EX-College. After shifting to Sunway, everything changed.
Many reasons, the most important I think I started my first year there, so I knew what the lecturers in my EX-College wanted. Second reason, because of the shifting, many my courses changed their sequences. Like I started to learn Corporate Law at semester 6, so when doing Corporate Governance assignment in semester 4, I didn’t really understand the topic as I should I have. Third reason, I was over proud of my assignments marks before, I didn’t pay enough efforts after shifting environment.
You know, when I got my first very low assignment marks in macro economics in VU, I was stunned. Even after this low assignment marks, I still thought it was just once. I would soon be able to score again. However, it was just the beginning. I got a series of low assignment marks afterwards.
Gradually, assignments and theory questions in final exams became my headache.
This nightmare finally finished at my last semester. All assignment marks are in the first group this time.
Good and bad, no more assignments in future, sigh~~~
2009-05-28
2009-05-07
Joke 5 Intangible Asset, Research & Development
In AFA Class, Dr. Foo has spent the whole week on explaining the proper accounting treatment on Research & Development. It is very hard to understand, nor to say memorize.
Actually, it could be quite simple. Most accounting students are female. For a girl, on her process of searching her Mr.Right, all the expenditure incurred should be recorded as expenses. Only after she has found her Mr.Right and the guy is promise to marry her in a foreseeable future, her expenditure could be capitalized as her new family's assets.
Actually, it could be quite simple. Most accounting students are female. For a girl, on her process of searching her Mr.Right, all the expenditure incurred should be recorded as expenses. Only after she has found her Mr.Right and the guy is promise to marry her in a foreseeable future, her expenditure could be capitalized as her new family's assets.
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