What type of girl friend would I prefer? 3

What type of girl friend would I prefer? 3

As you know, I was born in a broken family. When I was young, papa and mama always fought. As the results, I am not very good at socializing or communicating. I knew it myself. It is not whining, actually a broken family meant a lot of things and many would out of ur imagination.

For instance, mama and papa smashed porcelains on floor last night, what would they feel afraid on today, after going to work? Kids brought some little friends to their house, saw the not yet cleaned mess and then rumors would spread all over the apartments. My mama and papa were very smart. When I was young, I was strictly not allowed to bring any friends back to my house.

Another example, every time I saw my mama was in a dark face, as she beat her kids a lot for no reason, my instinct would reasonably be, leave her alone, hided myself in my little room and pretend on doing my homework. “Don’t trouble the trouble, unless the trouble troubles me.” Only this year, I read a family relation book in Sunway Library. It stated that a woman will expect her man to hug her and listen to her when she is in a bad mood. For another boy was born in a good family, which his mother seldom beats him heavily, it will be easier for him to get the right instinct from the beginning.


Unfortunately, one’s life is always tight with his background. Only I know and I am learning, I do not like a girl scold me a lot on my disabilities. I had experienced too many scoldings in my life and they are still remaining too heavy.

I would more like the type of girls, who will come to teach me how to socialize; the type of girls, who can see and who is willing to encourage me for my every little step of improvement.

This is the type of girl friends that I know will benefit my life.

What type of girl friend would I prefer? 2

What type of girl friend would I prefer?
I come from a problematic family. After girls ask me and get my story, they will usually give me 2 totally opposite suggestions.

Either, “Siaojun, you should go back and kill ur father. If my father treated me like that......”
Or, ”Siaojun, it is all your faults. All papa and mama love their kids.”

Which type of suggestions I prefer? Actually, neither.

I would like my girl friend suggest me on:
How to find a way to get my tuition fees and living expenses paid?
How to make my way to get through all the difficulties that I am currently facing?
How to find a good job in Singapore?
And how to set up my own business in the future?

Are u among this type of constructive and helpful girls, that I am always looking for?

Which type of girl friend I prefer? 1

My friend asked me a question yesterday:
Assume I and my girl friend are on a bus, Rapid KL 63 let’s say. We are seeing a thief is stealing purse from an old man.

Girl friend Type A will push me to alarm the old man and try my best to capture the thief.
Girl friend Type B will hold my hand tightly and prevent me from doing anything.


I think I will prefer type B. Which type would u prefer? Or which type of girls are u?

List out important and unimportant characters of your ideal partner

List out important characters and unimportant characters of your ideal partner

Tonight, when I was self-studying in foyer someone gave me a survey forum, these are what I just filled up.

Important
1. Even Temper & Soft
2. Love Me
Consider my background, these first 2 preferences are very-very important to me. It is good and bad. The bad is, if I found a girl didn't like to sit with me in class or didn't reply my sms, I would normally give up. The good is, I am the type of persons seeking for love, not only seeking sex. U can always trust me, I lack of it.

3. Responsible & Reliable
4. Know how to dress up




Unimportant
1. Good School Results
Maybe important to her company, but not important to me

2. Very Pretty
She has no need to be very slim. That is not healthy. But I would like her only wears glasses when reading books.


Do I only have so few requirements? May because I haven't think it carefully yet. May because who am I? At least these listed out are clear cuts. For example, once I felt I liked a girl, just because all her friends spoke Indonesian, only she noticed my presence and spoke English, to make me not feel too lonely. I am often touched by this kind of small efforts and I believe a life-long relationship will be mostly consisted of these small-small carings.

一个学期的爱情

一个学期的爱情
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你走了，可是你的关心还藏在我的记忆里，
还记得那天，我跟你说，我的书包很脏了，最好不要帮你装你的食物呀
你笑我，书包很脏不可以哦，弄不好会有老鼠、蟑螂跑进去。我正奇怪你在讲什么，
你却说，“我帮你洗书包吧。”虽然我拒绝了，还跟你男生讲也要学会做家务呀
但是那种感觉真是甜到我心里......
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你离开KL了，可是你的温暖仍留在我的心里，
还记得那天傍晚，一起在Maden吃饭，你一个小女生却点了2份菜
一直劝我吃。虽然我抢着付了帐，还跟你讲，男生不可以花女生的钱，要不就长不大了。
可是那种感觉真是温暖到我的心里......
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你回JB了，可是你可爱的样子还印在我的脑海里，
还记得那天，我笑你养什么兔子，自己就长的像个兔子。
你一面跟朋友抱怨说，“Siaojun好过分哦，说我像兔子！”
一面在椅子上一跳一跳的装兔子，好可爱好可爱.......
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你不在我身边了，可是你的淘气的样子仍浮现在我的眼睛里，
还记得那天一起读书的时候，你拨通爸爸的电话，调皮的讲，“宝贝爸爸，I love u！”
然后坏坏地笑着放宝贝爸爸的声音给我听，“女儿，晚上回家要小心哦，前两天jb这边......”
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你飞去澳洲了，可是你的甜甜的声音仍回响在我的耳朵里，
记得那天送你回Monash Condo的时候，两个人到了门口却还有说不完的话，
最后周围的人都在看我们：你长的那么美，我这个穷小子却穿的那么邋遢
你知道吗，那天我回到Perdana都凌晨1点半了呢......
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一個人在澳洲的时候，记得常常打电话回来
遇到压力，就像以前一样逼我给你讲笑话
遇到不开心的事，就像以前一样一点一滴的跟我讲
遇到不会做的题，就像以前一样跑来问我
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遇到一个人寂寞的时候，别忘了在Sunway正有人想听听你的声音
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今天上TLP的时候，盼着你会来，又盼着你已经办妥去澳洲的手续，最好别有什么麻烦
记得那天晚上曾和你一起在foyer唱这首你爸爸最喜欢的歌。有一天再见的时候，如果你还没有爱人，我一定牵着你的手再一次唱给你听：
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背靠着背坐在地毯上
听听音乐聊聊愿望
你希望我越来越温柔
我希望你放我在心上
你说想送我个浪漫的梦想
谢谢我带你找到天堂
哪怕用一辈子才能完成
只要我讲你就记住不忘
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我能想到最浪漫的事
就是和你一起慢慢变老
一路上收藏点点滴滴的欢笑
留到以后坐着摇椅慢慢聊
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我能想到最浪漫的事
就是和你一起慢慢变老
直到我们老的哪儿也去不了
你还依然把我当成手心里的宝
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我能想到最浪漫的事
就是和你一起慢慢变老
直到我们老的哪儿也去不了
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